The Practical Application of Intimate Relationship Skills

Pacific Family Life has been helping couples put love back into their marriage and relationships for over 30 years. Under the direction of Benno Dreger, we offer relationship and marriage help in dealing with issues around relationships, anger management, infidelity, communication, problem solving and intimacy. With the practical and unique tools PAIRS teaches, couples the world over have been able to restore, rebuild, enrich and sustain great marriages and focus on the family.

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	Men's Anger Management
	The Transforming Power of PAIRS

Counselling Services

We also specialize in individual, family and marriage counselling. Our trained Counsellors and counselling interns offer help with a wide variety of issues including relationship problems, recovering from an affair, depression, anxiety, self esteem, personal development, communication, anger management, abuse, and addiction. We offer competitive rates, package specials and numerous insurance options (see our fee schedule above).

Also, join us for one of our exciting and rewarding PAIRS seminars designed to teach you the secrets to make your relationship fantastic.

Extraordinary love relationships don't just happen. They take work. We teach the "how to" of a relationship so that love and romance can flourish in your marriage!

"Don't check out of your relationship before you check out PAIRS!"

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Free PAIRS Information Seminar!

Has your relationship gone flat? Does your marriage need help? Are you less attracted to your partner? Is your emotional baggage affecting your present relationship? Thought you met the perfect partner only to discover the things you once loved about them now drive you crazy?

If you answered "yes" to any of these questions, then attending a FREE PAIRS PREVIEW SEMINAR is the place to start. A PREVIEW is a practical, entertaining seminar that will help you discover the secrets to having a great relationship. You'll learn:

Anger Management Workshops

Anger is not power. In fact, nothing makes you feel worse than hurting the ones you love!

Our six week Anger Management Boot Camps will teach you how to handle your feelings of anger and deal with even the most difficult situations in a more positive and constructive way.

Best of all-participants who graduate the program are also given a lifetime membership and can return at any time if needed to brush-up on the skills the have learned free of charge.

Click on the Anger Management page on the menu to the left for more information.

Why Do Relationships Fail?

It's NOT because couples can't communicate! In fact, talking about your relationship will usually make things even worse.

Women want to talk about the problems in their relationship because is makes them feel better, less anxious-safe. For men it's the opposite. Talking about relationship problems causes them to feel like failures and ashamed. This biological difference between men and women cause men to pull away leaving both feeling lonely, dissappointed, disconnected and resentful. Women will never get a closer relationship with their men by talking to them like their girlfriends!

Love is not about better communication. It's about connection. It's about finding love beyond words and learning the stills necessary to achieve the closeness that both men and women need and want.

Don't let another minute stand in your way of having the relationship you've always wanted. Attend a free preview and see the difference PAIRS can make.

Quotable Quotes

The Formula for Relationship Success: “The quality of a relationship is a function of the extent to which it is built on a solid underlying friendship that meets the needs of the two people involved”.

- Dr. Phil McGraw, Ph.D., Relationship Rescue

“When we gather the courage to search for the truth of our being and the truth of our partner's being, we begin a journey of psychological and spiritual healing.”

- Dr. Harville Hendrix, Ph.D. Getting the Love You Want

If your marriage or relationship needs help, or your want to focus on the family, call Pacific Family Life Today..... Serving Vancouver, Richmond and Surrey BC, Canada.